Monday, May 10, 2010

It's Not Mother's Day Anymore




There are several reasons why I am acutely aware that it is NOT Mother's Day anymore. Let me highlight a few...







1. Keith and Cole got up an hour earlier than usual.


2. I changed 7 diapers (5 of which were poopy) before morning snack time. (Unless I'm running a daycare, that seems like an unfair statistic.)


3. I found my toothbrush buried in a pile of whiskers dumped out of Brent's electric razor.
















4. I later found my toothbrush being used to "clean" our office chair.

























5. I cleaned up a mountain of spilled rice and a broken bowl off the kitchen floor.
6. I cleaned half a tube of trial-size toothpaste out of the carpet and off Ally's face.


7. I didn't get a run in this morning. (That is never a good start to my day.)


8. Ally refused to take a morning nap.
















9. I have innumerable loads of laundry calling my name. I'm obviously still ignoring them.


10. My bedroom floor currently looks like this. The fact that I have been avoiding the task of crawling into the attic to return the Easter stuff caught up with me today when Cole discovered it so neatly tucked away in a corner of my room. He did ask before getting all of it out and I didn't have the strength to say 'no'. I guess now I just need the strength to clean it up...
(That's Keith in the picture.)





















11. It's 1:16 in the afternoon and I haven't showered or brushed my teeth. (For obvious reasons, I might be forgoing the brushing teeth thing until I can round up a clean toothbrush or get to the store. The boys' latest obsession with "brushing" their teeth has depleted my once well-stocked toothbrush supply.)

I am in mourning. Perhaps because yesterday was such a perfect day, the typical chaos of today seems out of place when in fact, the chaos is exactly where it should be and always is: right here. Since the kids are too small to really recognize Mother's Day, the onus was upon Brent to make it special and he delivered on all accounts. I slept in, took my time getting ready for church (which meant my hair was washed and I did get to brush my teeth), ate a delicious breakfast, got a 2 1/2 hour nap (I know, pure indulgence), ate a mouth-watering BBQ meal, watched a movie and snuggled with the boys while Brent cleaned up and then I sat and read a pile of magazines: Competitor, Crate and Barrel, and Real Simple. The day could not have been more perfect.
If only every day was Mother's Day. Well, I'm just holding out for another 364 more days. Let the countdown begin.





















10 comments:

Jill said...

But it is the other 364 days a year that actually prove you are a mother. If every day was like the celebration, then everyone could hack it. Not so, my friend, many people would go crazy with a toothbrush wielding, Easter Egg finding, toothpaste eating, bowl spilling bunch of kids. Not moms, they chalk it up to a point for the kids and press on.

Saimi said...

Hmmmmm your blog reminds me of a fellow blogging friend that parallels your life. If you want a sneak peek into another house of total chaos you can find her at: serenedesigns.blogspot.com

Glad you were spoiled on Mother's Day. Obviously deserved!

Sydney said...

Darc you deserve to be spoiled! Brent is a great guy and I'm sure he did a great job.
It doesn't matter what C, K, & A do - they are too cute to be mad at! Seriously, you should just feel proud everyday that you made the cutest kids in the world.

Sean and Jeannette said...

Awww, Darc! I thought you might be the hairy toothbrush type! :) WHY IS IT ALWAYS THE TOOTHBRUSH?!?! A couple of months ago I found Isaac brushing the toilet handle with my toothbrush and I think I threw up a little in my mouth. Seriously.

Happy Belated Mothers Day to you! You are absolutely amazing!

Sara said...

Darcee, if I lived closer I would bring you a new toothbrush right now! (at 10:35) I love your blog and secretly think mom's should get a holiday quarterly. Love, sara

Darrell said...

We're proud of you, especially on days like today. I'm afraid to let your mom read this post, because she'll be in the car in second and on her way to Portland to help.

Anonymous said...

Ok Darc, I'm looking for the car keys as we speak!!! Any excuse to come is good to me. Loved the post and love those beautiful children of yours no matter what they come up with to entertain themselves. Keep on hanging in there, they are sooooo worth it.

sheila said...

Ok Darc, I'm looking for the car keys as we speak!!! Any excuse to come is good to me. Loved the post and love those beautiful children of yours no matter what they come up with to entertain themselves. Keep on hanging in there, they are sooooo worth it.

Julie said...

That is quite the day! You'll have to find a secret hiding place for your toothbrush from now on.

I'm glad Brent was so good to you on Mother's Day. I think you deserve at least 3 days throughout the year since you have 3 kids!

PS. I can't believe how much older Ally looks! I love her cute polka dot pants in the last pics.

Heather said...

Darcee,
Now that I have 3 kids, I have more admire you more than ever--how do you do it? Reading your post made me laugh, because that is how my days are. Thanks for helping me to realize that it doesn't matter if my house stays clean, dinner gets cooked, or the clothes get folded--the kids are only little like this for so long and I need to enjoy this time!! Also, I think you are a superwoman--there are not many moms that could do what you do--way to go!!