
The nurse who handed Keith to Brent after he was born called him "small but mighty". At 3 lbs 2 oz he was small and he's proving now like he proved then that he is as mighty as they come. He fought for life in the womb and he won and we know he can do it again.
For anyone who does not know, Keith was diagnosed with a brain tumor yesterday. The neurosurgeon has not done a complete MRI reading, but his initial words to us yesterday were that this tumor is "enormous", "ugly", "definitely malignant" and "invasive" (meaning it's in the brain stem). We'll know more details this afternoon and certainly much more once we receive the pathology reports from the actual tumor. Surgery is scheduled for tomorrow morning. We know the neurosurgeon will remove as much of the tumor as he can without disturbing the portion in the brain stem. We do not know how small or large of a portion that is yet. Beyond that, we aren't speculating much about the future. We are taking this one day at a time.
Keith is doing well. We are watching Beauty and the Beast in the Pediatric ICU. He will be here until the excess fluid in his brain is drained. (There has been spinal fluid build-up due to the tumor blocking his brain's ability to re-absorb the fluid.) Fortunately, the major pressure is off and we're just waiting for the fluid to drain. The medical team is unsure how long that will take, likely anywhere from 1 to 10 days.
Keith is in good spirits today. He keeps asking to go home and obviously at 3 years old, he does not understand why he is here. But he's anxiously awaiting a visit from Cole and Ally this morning which will be great for all of them.
Life is full of surprises, mostly good and some not so good. To think that Tuesday morning my main focus was training for the Boston Marathon and a few hours later, I was intensely focused on a much different, much harder and much more important kind of endurance test. Fortunately, Brent and I have a very strong relationship. We continue to love and support each other. We have family support that is second to nobody else I know. We have friends who love us. And most importantly, we feel the love and support of a Savior who has suffered all and knows how to best succor us at this time. In the strength of the Lord we can do all things. If anyone can overcome this it is us. It is Keith.
Thank you all for your prayers and support. We can do this.
37 comments:
My heart is breaking for you and your family. My prayers are with you and your amazing son, You have many that love you and your family and will pray fervently that Heavenly Father will comfort and bless you.
Jana Beebe
(from your parents ward)
Oh Burnetts...Eddie and I and our children will be praying for your family. I am so grateful you have such a strong family and friend support group near you. I just wish Texas were a bit closer so I could be included in that group. Know that we are near, not in distance, but in our heart. Our prayers and thoughts go out to you.
You are absolutely in our prayers. I cried when I heard this and reading this post made me cry again. If there is any thing else we can do let us know.
E has been especially diligent in prayer for her friend "teef."
Once again I wish we lived closer.
If there is ANYTHING we can do, we are here for you...
The Comstocks...
I am so heartbroken for you, Darcee. Not Keith, not that sweet little guy. He will be in our prayers. I am so sorry.
Darcee-
I don't even know what to say... I will be praying for your family, and I love you guys.
Love-Shanna
I love you and your sweet family. I will be praying for you and your sweet little boy.
Love, Tara
Please know that all the Isgetts are praying for Keith and for your family. You are all in our thoughts and in our hearts.
Keith's name is on the prayer roll at the Boston Temple. I'm so sorry. So so sorry.
Oh Darcee, I am so,so sorry to hear about Keith. We know exactly what you and your family are and will be going through. I will be hard but we know that Heavenly Father will be there every second for you. We love you and are praying hard for Keith and your family.
Oh Darc,I am sorry. This news makes me cry. Life certainly throws you curve balls. We have had too many of them in the Hague family...especially with our boys. :( We will be praying for you all.
Love you Darc. I will be thinking of you guys and praying for you all.
My mother-in-law just sent me this blog and told me what was going on.
First reaction is complete sickness. It is mind-blowing how many of our little friends are getting cancer all of a sudden. I know that Heavenly Father has a reason, however.
You don't know me at all, but I LOVE your family. I have admired your parents so very much the last eight or so years I've known them.
I received several of these kind of notes/emails from families who have gone through this before. Some I replied to; some I ignored. I will NOT be offended if I never hear from you again. But, if you would like to ask questions, or just need to talk to someone who understands EXACTLY what you are going through, PLEASE contact me anytime day or night! I know we are sisters of our Heavenly Father, but also sisters because this situation instantly connects you to those who have endured these types of trials.
Amy Hatfield
amysuehatfield@gmail.com
509-823-7966
mitchellhatfield.blogspot.com
PS--You know we will add you to our prayers and pass your name along to others.
Oh Darcee! I have no words (but plenty of tears) other than you'll be in our prayers and thoughts.
Brent and Darcee--I was just sick when my mom told me the news--know that we love you and will be praying for Keith.
Brent and Darc, WE LOVE YOU GUYS. When my mom told me I seriously felt sick inside. Im so sorry for this trial you are going through. You have such an amazing little family, and so many people love you guys and are pulling for little Keith. We are all praying and fasting for him. Everything will be ok. Love you guys tons.
My whole family is praying for you guys and little Keith. We love you all and are supporting you!
Love the Woodards/Smarts
Love you and your family, in our prayers.
Darcee,
My heart is just breaking for your family. Anne saw your post and callled me right away. Then I called Lizzie (I haven't talked to her in years). It is crazy how life can change in the blink of an eye. Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Marie
Darcee - So sad to see this news today when I checked in on your blog. I am so sorry that you're facing this trial. You're family is beautiful, we still have your Christmas card up in the kitchen. I love looking at it and always love reading posts about your darling kids' antics. Please know that Keith and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers this week and beyond. You're right, if anyone can do this, you and brent can. You've always been strong together. I hope with all my heart tomorrow goes as well as possible.
Darcee and Brent,
We were so sad to hear about little Keith and honestly we can't stop thinking about you guys and what you must be going through.You are such a good family. You are all in our prayers and will continue to be.
I don't know what to say...I love this little man! My heart goes out to your family and my little Keith...Know that we love you all and if there is anything we can do, let us know! We mean it! Love you guys, give him a hug and kiss from his nursery leader, who loves him dearly! You all will be in our prayers!
Oh Darcee, My thoughts are with you continuously. I truly love you and your family and are so happy to have you as friends. Keith will be up and scaring the snow-beasts in no time.
If you need anything, anything at all... watching the kids, really unhealthy baked goods, a playdate, help with laundry... you name it, I'm your gal.
keith is a little trooper. know our thoughts and prayers are with you guys, always.
Darcee and Brent,
We love you two and your family. You stand for everything good. Our hearts are heavy for you. That Keith is so darn cute and we are sure he is a mighty fighter... that comes in the genes. Our fasting and prayers are with you.
P.S Rick just wanted to say he loves you guys, and that we are praying for Little Keith and hoping that you will feel ours prayers with you. He says you are both so special, Keith has to be a special little boy.
Oh Darcee, I don't even know what to say. I just want you to know I'm thinking of you and praying for your family often. Good luck with everything.
So so sorry. We will be praying for your family. Sending love your way.
Keith is affecting a lot of people. You're an amazing family. I was in the temple yesterday (Keith's name is in Oquirrh Mtn.) and was reminded that God is in charge. Many prayers today for Keith and your family. We love you!
Brent and Darcee,
We are so sorry this has happened and our hearts ache for you. We are thinking about you and praying for you.
Love,
Steve and Krista Connell
Oh Darc and Brent,
Our hearts go out to you and your sweet family! You and Brent have passed on your strength to your sweet kiddos and Keith is definitely showing that in such a time as this! We will pray for you! xoxo
We love you guys! We are praying for you.
Love,
Chad and Mareille
your family is in our prayers. my heart aches for you...Keith has such an incredible spirit about him, he truly is mighty. we love you and will continue to pray and fast for your family.
Darcee,
You are so right: if anyone can do this you and your family can. You are a strong woman! I am touched by your faith and testimony. Please remember there are so so many people anxious to lend a hand in any way you need. I love your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Let me know if you need ANYthing.
Allison
Darcee and Brent,
Brittany and I are sending lots of love and prayers from Boston. Their are so many people here who are praying for you and Brent and especially Keith.
Scott and Brittany
Darcee--
My prayers are with you and your family. I know that the Lord will be with you and strengthen you to carry this burden and navigate the future. My family went through this when I was a teenager. My sister was diagnosed with a malignant brain tumor. I know the Lord has a special place on this earth and in His kingdom for the parents and children effected in these situations. Much love to you and your family. I know you have a great support network, but if you ever need to talk please feel free to call. 801 420 8688 or email. danette_schellhous@hotmail.com.
Oh Darc my heart just brooke when i read this! I am so happy i found your blog! my thoughts and prayers are with you guys...
xoxo lindsey pinon
if anyone can handle this it would be you!
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